Updates

Time for an update, I’ve probably kept saying this but I’ve taken on entirely too many projects and there is absolutely not enough time in the day to get through everything I want to work on. I’m behind on posts for both this site and another, though I have plenty of work to do as...

Alright, switching gears

I have taken on entirely too many projects, and there is just not enough time in the day to work on all of them. And the stupid thing on my part, is that ALL OF THEM are ongoing. It’s not just a hurry up and finish it kind of project (though I’ve got a few...

What do I need to forgive myself for? TW

I need to forgive myself for all the things I couldn't control. For escaping our toxic family dynamic and leaving my siblings behind. For not reaching out to check in on others when I could barely check in on myself. For not being able to protect my brother from a situation neither of us could...

Coping with Negativity

What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings? I should know how to put this into words, but I don't really have them. Coping with negativity is entirely dependent on the type of negativity felt and the scenario with which the negativity was brought up. Sadness - I keep space to feel it,...

Stoked – Things are all coming together

Oh my goodness, I should have updated days ago. I've been working on another project! (surprise-suprise). The last little while, I have been hyperfocused on one thing, and one thing only - launching a business. Trying to decide if I'll do all the things on AeoVA or if I want ShadowofAshe to become its own...

Week of — March 20 2025

I said this already a few weeks ago, but it's been a long fucking week. I'm not even sure how long it was since my last post. The effects of everything that has happened to me over the course of my life are beginning to catch up with me, and in a lot of ways...

I wish the days were 32 hours long…

Daily writing promptWhat do you wish you could do more every day?View all responses and that the standard work week remained 40 hours or less. There needs to be more time for people to rest. To sleep. To play. Life is full of things we have to do, and not enough of the things that...

What do I feel resentful about?

This is fresh - so if you're not in the mood for a rant, I suggest you read a different post. I'll give you a minute to decide. . . . Oh, you're still here? Cool, here it goes. I resent the fact that the world lied to me. That I grew up being told...

I hate being asked, “How are you?”

Daily writing promptWhat is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.View all responses This question is so ingrained in us all, that it's turned into an auto response. Even I do it from time to time, and I have to intentionally think about it to not respond instinctively. People go about asking how are...

How do I react when I feel rejected or not accepted?

This is simple, I recluse. I spent so long trying to fit in, be heard, become likeable, express myself, be an active conversationalist, become an extrovert - the works. However it became abundantly clear very quickly that I was the friend people wanted to be around only when they needed something. When I am in...